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Family Preparedness – Safety Password

Source: The New Zealand Herald.

An Upper Hutt child escaped a possible abduction attempt because a stranger did not know the password his mother used when sending people to pick him up from school.

Source: COLIN WILLIAMS/ FAIRFAX NZ

The Trentham School boy was approached by a man in a black car on Monday afternoon who told him: “I need to take you home.” The incident is one of three recent instances where children were approached by strangers in Upper Hutt, though one of those was not found to have any criminal intent. The 10-year-old was in front of the Upper Hutt College courts on Moonshine Rd about 3.15pm on Monday when the man approached him.

“A black car approached him and a man in the car said to him something along the lines of ‘I need to take you home’, ” principal Suzanne Su’a said. “This child asked the man for the password and, of course, the man didn’t know it, so the child ran home. “Unfortunately, he didn’t inform Mum, who was at home, mainly because he was worried about upsetting Mum.” After lunch on Tuesday, the boy was worried about walking home, so told his teacher what happened. The school will have more staff out, and are reminding parents to speak to their children about safety. “We’re just reminding our parents to talk to their child about what they need to do to keep themselves safe if they ever get into this situation.” Su’a said the boy “did really well”. “He was pretty brave.”

She only wished he’d told his mother as soon as possible about the approach, “because then the police could have been notified and the perpetrator could have still been in the vicinity, and the likelihood of actually nabbing him could have increased”. Su’a said another Upper Hutt school last week reported a similar approach. The password system involves parents giving their child a password that another person picking up the child has to say so he or she knows it is safe to go with them. Read more here.

What can children do to stay safe?

• Walk home with someone else

• Stay on the footpath

• Move away from the edge of the footpath if a car pulls up

• If approached by a stranger, continuing walking or run away

• Use a family password

• Make plenty of noise if grabbed by someone

• Tell an adult as soon as possible